Filling the Oprah void

Last Friday, Oprah tweeted, “A lot of ‘lasts’ today. I’m really feeling like it’s the end. Still all sweet, no bitter.”

Since this was the day before the supposed Rapture, I had to admit, I started getting nervous. Was she talking just about her show or the end of the world, too? Sure, I was among the masses rolling my eyes at Harold Camping’s camp, but this was Oprah - maybe God himself had as hard a time imagining the world going on without her show as her fans do.

Of course, I’m kidding. About God at least. But not so much about her fans.

Although I’d stop short of putting myself in Oprah's fan camp and I’m confident the world will go on without "The Oprah Winfrey Show" after its last airing today, I’d be lying if I didn’t admit that I sense a void opening up.

Certainly, as an author, I’ve had to mourn the dream of “getting on Oprah.” I can’t imagine a bigger coup for a writer. But as a woman, I’ll miss something more.

Oprah has offered our culture - and women, in particular - something that was lacking for most of human history. She’s been a woman leading national conversations on topics that are important to women. At least, thus sayeth my friend Tracey Bianchi, Pastor of Women’s Ministry at Christ Church of Oak Brook and an unabashed fan of Oprah.

And, Tracey adds, Oprah has legitimatized these conversations and topics. “I heard it on Oprah” is a respectable way to start a conversation - not an intro to a joke or an example of how silly women and the things we cared about are. In fact, Oprah proved to the world that the things women really care about are far from silly.

“Who else was talking about orphans in Africa on daytime TV?” Tracey asks.

And she’s right. Not only did Oprah continue the Phil Donahue tradition of not talking down to women who were home during the day, but she continued to broaden worlds, enhance communication and change lives in her rather fearless discussions of global concerns, literature and family secrets.

Oprah understood the power of speaking truth as a method of healing. And, for all the people who criticize us for being a talk-show culture, ever-keen on spilling our guts, there are many more entirely set free by knowing we are not alone in our troubles.

While Oprah is far from perfect - and leaves room for plenty of fair critique - she leaves a void for good reason. She did a lot of good. Her fans are right to wonder who will fill that void.

While everyone from Katie Couric to Sarah Palin to Oprah herself on her OWN network will no doubt try, of course, there will not be another "Oprah Winfrey Show." There will be a void, but there doesn’t need to be one.

With the end of "The Oprah Winfrey Show," I hope this ushers in a movement of people of faith to step in to fill the gap. I hope Christians - men and women - fill it by ramping up our engagement, transformation and creation of culture in areas of the arts and of global injustices, in truth-telling and label-removing. Goodness, even in matters of celebrity and our favorite things!

I hope that those of us who have learned or been shaped by a thing or two from Oprah will bring it to God and look to him to see what he would have us do with what we’ve learned. In this way, each of us can help fill the voids that are truly lacking in our world.

(Photo courtesy of vargas2040/Wikimedia Commons.)

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What an excellent viewpoint. I am definitely going to miss the professional and entertaining way in which Oprah has brought many issues to the forefront.  I've got some of my own ideas in my head about a post on this same topic. 

As Christians, I think what she's taught me is that opening up to others can be really healing.  And, that's what God's Word tell us. Confess your sins one to another and you will be healed.
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This is an interesting post in light of the trend of figurative (and literal!) Oprah-worship I've seen during her reign as queen of daytime talk. As you said, many people, mostly housewives, appreciated the way her show gave voice to their own interests and concerns. But we've seen some move beyond appreciation to devotion, seeing Oprah as a kind of all-purpose guru for every aspect of their lives. A few even turned to her for spiritual advice, and were fed a pabulum of pick-and choose mysticism and The Secret. I'm not saying anything new here. We all know at least one Oprah superfan.
But my point is this: Oprah's success and cultural impact owes a lot to people's desire to be led, to have a guide through the tricky stuff, from finding the right bra to surviving a divorce. It has been great to have a woman in that role, and Oprah has helped a lot of people. However, when it comes to their spiritual lives, women would have been better served ALL ALONG by turning to God and a supportive Church fellowship. So now is not the time to fill the void left by Oprah; it's the time to show women who've used Oprah as a crutch to get through life what a real Messiah looks like. (Written with some humor by the daughter of an Oprah superfan)
I guess I'm a lot more negative than the rest of you.  Maybe it's partly because I'm a male but all of her good deeds don't make up for the fact that she has been leading people astray for so many years.  I do appreciate her heart of compassion but all of the good deeds in the world don't matter in the least if you are believing in anything other than the one true God.  There are far too many who worship her or following along with her lead of picking and choosing from religions and saying that there are many ways to God and Heaven.  She may have helped out a lot of people but what good is that if you have lost your soul?
REFPSTR I CAN NOT HONESTLY SAY THAT I DISLIKE HER AS A PERSON BECAUSE REALLY I KNOW HER NOT BUT WHAT I CAN AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT WITH ALL THE MONIES AND THINGS THAT SHE HAS DONE FOR OTHER AND HER SPECIAL GIFT CAN NOT SAVE ONE SOUL AND SHE HAVE BEEN ON THE AIR FOR 25 YEARS HOW MANY SOULS HAVE SHE SAVE IN ALL THOSE YEARS...IF WE DO NOT KNOW GOD OR HER FANS DO NOT NO HIM THEN THE INFORMATION SHE HAS GIVEN OUT TO THE ABOUT OUR LORD AND SAVIOR IS ONLY GOING TO LEAD A LOT OF HER FANS STRAIGHT INTO THE GATES OF HELL)))))))))) I PRAY THAT PEOPLE DO NOT SEEN ME AS A MEAN PERSON OR HAVE ANYTHING AGAINST HER... MY GOD LOVE THE TRUTH AND HE HATES A LIER HE SAID I TURN MY FACE AWAY FROM A LIER...GOD SAINTS ARE HERE TO TRY TO WIN SOUL TO OUR LORD AND SAVIOR... GOD KNOWS WE CAN'T AFFORD TO LOSE ANY AS WE ARE TRULY LIVING IN THE LAST DAY'S... GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR HAVE A BLESS DAY
HELLO TO ALL AND MAY GOD GUIDE YOR HEARTS AND MIND I LIKE OPRAH AS A HUMAN BEING I'VE LEARN A LOT FROM WATCHING HER SHOW AND YES SHE IS GOING TO MISS BY HER FANS... BUT I LOVE GOD MORE I HAVE NOTHING AGAINT HER... BUT I DO KNOW THAT SHE WILL LIKE TO FIND HER OWN WAY TO GOD...HER WAY AND PLAN TO GOD IS NOT GOD PLAN AND IT JUST REMINDS ME OF NAZREATH... HE WAS VERY RICH BUT ALL THAT HE HAD COULD NOT KEEP HIM ALIVE OR SAVE HIS SOUL...HE WAS A GOOD MAN... BUT IT STILL WASN'T ENOUGH TO GET HIM IN THE GOLDEN GATES OF HEAVEN AND NEITHER WILL OPRAH GET THROUGH... THOSE GATES WITH OUT CONFESSING THAT GOD SON JESUS IS THE WAY THE TRUTH AND THE LIFE TO ALL OF MAN KIND KNOW ONE GET'S IN THE DOOR BUT BY HIM MEANING HIS SON HIS NAME IS JESUS CHRIST..HE SAID THAT I'M IN THE FATHER AND THE FATHER IS IN ME... I PUT MY FAITH IN GOD NOT IN MONEY AND WORLDLY THINGS ALL THE MONEY IN THE WORLD WILL NOT SAVE ANY SOUL FOR THAT MATTER I JUST PRAY THAT GOD WILL CHANGE HER HEART AND MIND.NOT BEING DISRESPECTFUL BUT I NEVER SEEN A MONEY TRUCK/FURNITURE TRUCK BEHIND A HURST...I WENT TO THIS SITE CALL HELLERVISION.COM TO SEE HOW OPRAH SAY THAT WE ALL WILL FINE OUR OWN WAY TO JESUS.. I DO NOT THINK SOOOO... THERE IS ONLY ONE IN GOD GRACE AMEN.

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