Have missional churches become the new legalists?

Churches built around the concept of "missional living" are everywhere lately.

My family and I relocated two years ago for the sole purpose of helping launch such a church, compelled by the vision of getting out of a building, back into the neighborhood, reaching the culture where it is.

But I now wonder if we are in danger of becoming the new legalists?

On the surface, it doesn't appear so. Many members of missional churches are beer/wine/liquor connoisseurs. No one takes issue with lighting up a cigar. And rather than shunning modern music for CCM-style worship, many missional Christians are on the cutting edge of their local music scenes. The new legalism is not one of avoidance, then. ("I don't drink, smoke, or chew, or hang out with those who do.")

Instead, modern legalism involves “doing.” There are hundreds of books, sermons, articles and conferences centered on the strategy of missional living. Common themes center on doing more to reach your neighborhood or city:

  • Move into an urban area
  • Become involved in neighborhood associations (the buzzword here is “intentional”). Don’t just do it because you want to improve where you live; look also for “authentic” (another buzzword) ways to spread the Gospel.
  • Host. Host. Host.
  • Eat dinner with your neighbors. One challenge I’ve heard is to eat at least one meal a week with someone outside of your immediate family, preferably in your home.
  • Host some more.
Because of the open nature of hospitality, it is also one of the biggest invitations to legalism. As a young mother with three wild boys and a husband that worked for days on end just to support us, I feared having people in my home for years. When I finally faced that fear and began hosting a meeting in my home weekly, I received judgment on how I chose to run my home. As my grandmother says, “Darned if you do; darned if you don’t.”

Is it bad to invest in your neighborhood, open your home and eat with neighbors? No, of course not - and my family has done each of these things and more in our passion to share the love of Christ. Notice, though, that this list does not include seeking to grow your own relationship with Christ. Perhaps it is assumed that if you are living missionally, you are also seeking Christ. But should it be?

The missional movement did not start this way. The men and women credited with leading it write with passion about Christ and the pursuit of His glory. Many of the pastors leading the missional churches long to join with Christ in the renewal of His creation. Yet as the churches grow, as more books are published, as the websites get more traffic, the danger of legalism increases.

Without close, intimate relationships, it is too easy to prescribe a method, a strategy. We are in danger of expanding on the Great Commission. “Therefore, go, and make disciples. And do it this way…”

Can the missional movement avoid legalism? I believe so, and I don’t think it’s difficult. Preach the gospel, always. From the pulpit, to each other, to yourself and - eventually, without agenda - to your neighbor. When we focus on Christ, the rest falls into place according to His will.

Missional living comes from the idea of missio dei, the mission of God in the world. We must be careful to go with God and not because of Him.
Monica Selby lives (missionally) in Memphis, Tenn., with her husband and three boys. She is a member of Redbud Writers' Guild and blogs at In the Whisper.

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Comments (12)

Hi Monica, great post and I appreciate your balance to the missional equation.  As one who has contributed some writing to the "missional church thing," and as one who pastors such a church, I am encouraged that most inside the genuine movement are as concerned about discipleship as much as we are the more evangelistic aspects of missional living.  A good friend Mike Breen posted an article a few months back suggesting that the missional movement will most likely die the same death non-missional movements are dying simply because of the lack of clarity and focus on creating disciples of Jesus.  Missional just means to be "Sent" and represents the "Go" part of the "Go and Make Disciples" call that Jesus gave to us all.  Without the Go...no disciples, but even with a GO but no intention to develop people into Kingdomlings, we lose as well.  I'm happy to say however that if you look under the veneer of most of the leading missional writers and practitioners (Neil Cole, Alan Hirsch, Mike Frost, Alan Roxburgh, Reggie McNeal and others, you will see their main message is discipleship. Thanks,
Hugh Halter author of The Tangible Kingdom & Sacrilege
good stuff Monica!  Thanks for reminding us that it's about Christ and His mission through our lives, not just getting caught up in a new flavour of the month evangelism method :)
Great article Monica! We can get so caught up in living into our particular Christian subculture's expectations (WHATEVER they are) that we lose sight of the purpose behind it, and become like "resounding gongs and clanging cymbals." Good thoughts.
We are constantly forced to decide which way we will take our faith. If we let God move us and use us, then it's freeing. When we start getting into expectations, then that gives Satan plenty of time to work -- and legalism indeed is our new God.

David, www.redletterbelievers.com
Monica, This is a great article. My family lives in a suburb near you, and we have beat this conversation to death in our house. We've prayed over moving into the city, and God has led us to stay put. But, we do live here with a different heart, now.  Even in living here, I feel those same pressures. I used to think I had to save myself. Now I think I have to save those around me. I agree with you. I have to continually turn my focus to Christ and let everything else fall under.
Suzanne, so fun that we live nearby!  This is definitely a difficult metro area to discern some of these things.  I, for one, am so grateful for families like yours staying in the 'burbs.  "Missional living" is an ever-so-slight paradigm shift for us, and--to be cliche--the suburbs need Jesus, too.  Thanks for reading and commmenting!
It's interesting how quickly we turn a God-given desire to show the fruit of the spirit to those around us into community pressure to become Martha Stewart for Jesus.  Ironically, prescribing ways to have "authentic" interactions "without an agenda" leads to a lot of forced interactions in the name of an agenda.

May we show kindness, patience and gentleness to ourselves and other Christians, as well as those we hope to win over for Christ!
Hah! I’ve been missional most of my life without knowing it. I go to parties with my neighbors, go out to celebrate an account win at a tavern with my workmates and have a gin and tonic or beer. I serve wine at home and smoke a cigar about once or twice a year with my brother. I give away money and services to peole in need, I tell as many people as I can about Jesus. Just for fun, two weeks ago 6 of us went out on the streets and told people about Jesus and led 9 people to first time faith in Jesus. I pray in tongues daily, pray for physical healing on our prayer team at Church. I read the Bible through at least once or twice a year and study it every day. I am a fine artist, business owner. Life as a Christian is totally fun, occasionally dangerous and always rewarding. Don’t worry about legalism, just live like Jesus, avoid sin, meditate daily on His word and be filled with the Spirit. You may wind up being called missional.
As fellow believers we are all in this together. If the message is Jesus whatever method we use to deliver that message is missional. It fulfills the great commission.
Excellent post! The church loves trends and loves to play with semantics, thus our christianity swings like a pendulum with every generation. Thanks for reminding us to focus on Christ, and Missio Dei
Great post, especially in terms of pointing to the real reason for intentional living.  Everything starts with intentional relationship with God.  Hugh pointed out Mike Breen, (and 3dm).  One thing they always talk about is up, in, out.  Up with God, In to the Church, Out to the world.  Really basic explanation but it works.

Everything we "do" should flow out of the grace that results from our personal intimate time with God.  

I think the exciting thing is that people are starting to realize that "Church" can look different, but they don't know how to get there; hence all the resources.  I have not chosen to read all the books and listen to all the sermons because it is all there in the Bible.  But there are some great books out there that really push people into what it means to be a true disciple of Jesus.

Thanks for being missional and keeping your eyes on Jesus!  We all need that reminder!!!

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