The Family that Prays Together…

For almost sixty years, we've published a daily devotional booklet, first called The Family Altar and then Today. And we print hundreds of thousands of them every two months. Many on our mailing list receive the Today in bulk, for redistribution in their own congregations and neighborhoods.

Lately though, because of the economic downturn, we decided the stewardly thing to do was to print fewer of them overall. And so, having printed fewer, we had to ask our readers which of them needed them and which didn't.

It's become a fascinating journey of listening to people's stories about their ministries and devotional lives. Some have found the devotional transformational in their own lives, having been touched by the Spirit at just the right moment through these booklets.

Others have spoken passionately about their own ministries, sharing the devotionals with shut-ins, or hospital patients, or prisoners, or military personnel. I've been surprised how many have used the booklet as an opportunity to build relationships with neighbors, meeting every two months for a cup of coffee and to pass along the new devotional.

And yet others relate that these devotionals have deep roots in their families, having been used for decades as the family reading at the dinner table. They are a daily dose of family worship. In my childhood, we too ate dinner as a family most every night, ending with Bible reading, discussion, and prayer. I always took it for granted. Now I suspect many of my secular business acquaintances would call it quaint, with equal parts derision for the old-fashionedness and jealousy for the family intimacy. I consider it a rare and marvelous blessing.

Even now, with my own kids in middle and high school, we do our best to break bread each night and reflect on the Word together. Sometimes it's perfunctory. Sometimes it's rambunctious. Sometimes it's sporadic. I pray it's a spitirual discipline that somehow takes root in the next generations.

But more and more, devotions are personal, families are scattered, intimacy is mediated. As a media ministry, we're working to push our devotional content beyond paper toward electronic distribution--to email, podcasts, web syndication, an iPhone app. But these technologies are singular, not corporate. What does devotions lose when we're alone?

And so I'm curious about your experience. Did your family share meals and devotions? Is it common or rare? Do you have any kind of corporate worship outside of congrgational services? Can family devotions happen online?

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My family does not spend enough time together. When we do spend time together on a devotional or prayer it is great. Online is difficult and more like broadcasting. It is very asynchronous and it is difficult to have close relationships. It is also a difference in generations. People in generation Y are digital natives, they grew up in the midst of the Internet and use it like we used letters and books. The times are changing. Will we change with them?
I grew up in a home where family worship was on its way out around the time of my birth. It was not until I started going to a great church that truly focused on family and spending time growing together in the Lord that I learned of the need for family worship. Too often the churches that I attended stressed the importance of youth groups and small groups over the importance of family worship. As a former youth pastor myself I know that the first and most essential need is family worship. Youth groups are great and helpful, but they should never fill the place of family worship.
For most of my life there was no family prayer, neither in my home as a child nor in my home as an adult. Those things changed not to long ago and now there is prayer in our home and in the homes of my children. We pray for many things as we all should and I thank God everyday for all the wonderful things he does without ever expecting anything back. I try to live my life like that in giving of myself, my life experiences and knowledge to others without getting anything back. After all if you pray together you stay together in the love of our one and only true Father. In God's Grace John
Often times I would share devotionals with my children (I am a widower) before they left the house each morning. I did it in hopes tthat they would carry it throughout their day. Times changed, attitudes changed, schedules changed and so did devotional time. My 17 year old daughter is completely disinterested, my 25 year old daughter believes but does not pray or read and will only go to church if I go. My 12 year old son, whom for a time I read devotionals to him at bedtime, has only a sporadic interest. I read my bible and devotionals several times a day. I am a 44yo online student (Junior) at Liberty University seeking a B.S. in Religion and another in Psychology w/ Christian Counseling Specialization. I say this because I try to set an example for my family but they don't seem interested in God right now. I know they believe in the God of Abraham and Jesus Christ, yet they do not want to spend anytime with him. I don't want to cram Jesus down their throats but am at a lost. I guess that was the extent of my corporate prayer outside of church. I believe that it is rare for families to share devotional not to mention much of any other time. It seems everyone is into their own thing, while living in the same house. Devotions still "work" for me, however, it is disappointing when you read one that you know you have to share or you will bust but no one is there mentally.
Both personal and group devotions are important. the good thing about paper devotionals is that you can turn away from the distractions waiting for you on the computer (email, surfing, news) and be still before God. Online devotions are convenient and can be shared between individuals (easily sent by email) ,but yes, we lose that face time. But, God is sovereign, and as we keep praying for God to reach those we share with, we should also keep our eyes open to the real live people we have around us.

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